In July 2012, by the suggestion of boy BammBamm, we began monthly discussion nights as a way to add an educational component to our club. Anyone in attendance at our monthly business meeting (the 1st Thursday of every month) has a voice in determining the topic of that month. Discussion nights are every 3rd Thursday of the month.
Below is a list of our past topics.
| Date | Topic | Moderated By |
|---|---|---|
| 10/15/2020 | Sex in Unusual Places (and how to navigate those spaces) | Sir Kenneth and Sir Austin |
| 09/17/2020 | Alan Keeler Memorial | |
| 08/20/2020 | Making Sex Fulfilling During a Pandemic | Eion, Jesse, and Scotty |
| 07/16/2020 | Power That No Longer Serves | Sir Eric and Peter |
| 06/18/2020 | Political Activism/Racism | Marcus, Rocko, and Justin |
| 05/21/2020 | Service at Home | Sir Eric, Sam, and Ryan |
| 04/16/2020 | Online Sexting | Sir Austin and Patrick |
| 03/19/2020 | None – The Pandemic Hit | |
| 02/20/2020 | The Art of Conversation | Eric and Patrick |
| 01/16/2020 | National Coalition for Sexual Freedom – Consent | NCSF Rep |
| 12/19/2019 | Temp, Wax, Cigars Demos | Everyone |
| 11/21/2019 | None – Prep for Wax-a-Bear | |
| 10/17/2019 | Role Play and Costumes | Patrick and Sarge |
| 09/19/2019 | Different Genitals than Expected | Mars, Selene, and Sir David |
| 08/15/2019 | Identity | Justin and Sam |
| 07/18/2019 | Impact, Piss, Bondage, Fire Demos | Everyone |
| 06/20/2019 | Unconventional Relationships and Power Dynamics | Mars and Kenneth |
| 05/16/2019 | Protocols | Jonathon and Gizmo |
| 05/16/2019 | Protocols | Jonathon and Gizmo |
| 04/18/2019 | Playing Outside Your Role | Peter and Justin |
| 03/21/2019 | Post-Event Drop | Patrick and Sir Eric |
| 02/21/2019 | Forced Orgasm and Orgasm Control Demo | Rocko and Mike |
| 01/24/2019 | New Beginnings | Pup Orion, Selene, and Sir Eric |
| 12/20/2018 | What Type of Boy Are You? | Mars and Sam |
| 11/15/2018 | Wax-a-Bear Prep | |
| 10/18/2018 | Training Your New Sir | Justin and Peter |
| 09/20/2018 | Hanky Code/The Colors You Flag | Steven and Scott |
| 08/16/2018 | Nuances and Nuisancesof Power Exchange | Rocko and Daddy Kenneth |
| 07/18/2018 | Bootblacking, Suspension, Mummification, and Flogging Demo | Multiple |
| 06/21/2018 | How Has PboL Changed You? | Jim, Mike, and Sir Eric |
| 05/17/2018 | Rope Bondage | Marcus and Ropeburn Steve |
| 04/19/2018 | DIY BDSM | Spike and Peter |
| 03/15/2018 | Differences in Power Relationships | Frankie and Sir Eric |
| 02/15/2018 | Diversity and Inclusion | Justin and Michael |
| 01/18/2018 | PrEP and TASK, pt 2 | Rocko |
| 12/21/2017 | PrEP and TASK, pt 1 | Rocko |
| 11/16/2017 | Planning and Thank You Cards | Wax-a-Bear |
| 10/19/2017 | Gender | Mars and Peter |
| 09/21/2017 | Discussion of the new proposed bylaws | Patrick (President) |
| 08/17/2017 | Aftercare and Setting the Scene | Marcus and Sir Eric |
| 07/20/2017 | CBT and Sounding Demo | Jeremiah, Spuds, and Michael May |
| 06/15/2017 | Dismissing Internal Monologues | Rocko and Daddy Kenneth |
| 05/18/2017 | Supporting Each Other Outside the Group | Rocko, Justin, and Sir Eric |
| 04/20/2017 | Postponed for Gear Night Demo | Which was a week early this month |
| 03/16/2017 | Personas | Peter and Sir Eric |
| 02/16/2017 | Leather Care | Garrett |
| 01/19/2017 | The Art of Submission | Eagle and Patrick |
| 12/15/2016 | Temperature Play Demo | Patrick and Zrai |
| 11/17/2016 | Bondage Demo | Daddy Kenneth |
| 10/16/2016 | Unknown | Alan and Rocko |
| 09/15/2016 | Body Image | Rocko and Steve |
| 08/18/2016 | Fetish as Fashion | Paul and Sir Eric |
| 07/21/2016 | Flogging Demo | Bob and Tater |
| 06/16/2016 | Discussion on the Orlando Massacre | Free Discussion |
| 05/19/2016 | D/s Relationships | Eric and Mike |
| 04/21/2016 | Voyeurism and Exhibitionism | Zrai and Justin |
| 03/17/2016 | Fetish | Mars and Ludo |
| 02/18/2016 | Protocol | Rocky and Daddy Kenneth |
| 01/21/2016 | Electro Play Demo | Multiple People |
| 12/17/2015 | Postponed | |
| 11/19/2015 | Chastity | Rocko and Patrick |
| 10/15/2015 | Power Discordant Relationships | Jefferson and Justin |
| 09/17/2015 | Polyamory | Jefferson and Mars |
| 08/20/2015 | Consent and Negotiation | Patrick and Peter |
| 07/16/2015 | Rope Bondage | Daddy Kenneth |
| 06/18/2015 | Fisting | |
| 05/28/2015 | CBT Demo | Multiple People |
| 04/16/2015 | Head Space | Sir Eric |
| 03/19/2015 | History of the boy movement/PboL | Peter and Alan and Jeff |
| 02/19/2015 | Successful Life as a Boy | Scott and Mars |
| 01/22/2015 | Mummification | Peter |
| 10/16/2014 | Animal Roleplay | |
| 09/18/2014 | Potpourri | Peter and Daddy Kenneth |
| 08/21/2014 | Safe Space | Rocko and Sir Eric |
| 07/17/2014 | Hygiene and Douching | Tugger |
| 06/19/2014 | Bootblacking | BammBamm and slave Tabitha |
| 05/15/2014 | Booblacking and leather care | |
| 04/17/2014 | Negotiations | Bob and Peter |
| 03/20/2014 | Body modifications | |
| 02/20/2014 | What does it mean to be a boy | Rocko and Marcus |
| 01/16/2014 | Fetishes | Jim and Paul |
| 12/19/2013 | Bondage demos (and participation) | Peter and Daddy Kenneth |
| 11/21/2013 | Multiple personas | Tugger and Sir Eric |
| 10/17/2013 | Service at home | Tugger |
| 09/19/2013 | Gender fluidity and attraction | Peter and BammBamm |
| 08/15/2013 | Edge play (fire) | Joeseph, Kenneth, Bob and Sir Sean (San Antonio) |
| 07/18/2013 | HIV and safer play | Loki |
| 06/20/2013 | Limits, negotiations, and your kink | |
| 05/16/2013 | Transitioning in roles | BammBamm and Loki |
| 04/18/2013 | Headspace | Rocko |
| 03/21/2013 | Intro bondage discussion | |
| 02/21/2013 | Boots/gear, what, why, and how | |
| 12/20/2012 | Title’s and the importance to the community | BammBamm |
| 11/15/2012 | History of the Boys | Joe and Alan |
| 08/16/2012 | Safe and Sane in Leather | Rocko and Loki |
| 07/19/2012 | Protocols | BammBamm |